If you gave birth is it scary as some people portray it to be?

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It was easy for me! It didn't hurt half as much as people said it would. I didn't use pain relief 😊
He's 4 month old now and were pregnant again so it couldn't have been too bad haha

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Not at all. It was a breeze for me.

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No pain relief and although it hurt like hell it was just about bearable. 
Problem is, ever labour is different so as many people as you ask on here one can tell you how yours is going to go! I think that’s what makes it scary but just do your best and trust the professionals!

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Luckily for me I had a painless labor due to an epidural but it was scary laying there thinking that in a couple hours I would have to push a baby out of my vagina😂 I ended up having a c-section! Try not think to much into it and just go with the flow and it'll be alot easier for you!

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I never gave birth & i'm not even pregnant. But my brother & his girlfriend are having a baby next month & originally her due date was may 24th & then they changed it to her not going past the 16th.. & now they were saying how she was gonna go earlier then tht like maybe the 7th so idk it's just sometime next time lol sinece it's rare for kids to be born on there bithdays (like with me i was supposed to be born july 25th but i wanted to come out 3 days earlier so my birthday's july 22nd). Anyway when my brother called me saying tht i was gonna be an aunt.. at first i wasn't really tht happy about it because i wanted to be the 1st one out of our siblings to you know have a baby & whatever because i'm the oldest & the brother tht's having a kid with his gf is the 3rd oldest. But like now i'm all excited about it & i already have like alot of baby shower stuff ready lol, (also they're not married yet which is ok, since they've been together for 4 years i think.. it's either 3 or 4 years). But then my other brother which is the 4th brother & his girlfriend got married but they didn't have a ceremony, they just eloped & then there'll probably be the next ones to get pregnant(& they've been together for almost 3 years, then they were on n off & when they were on for like i wanna say the 2nd time, they were actually planning a wedding, but not even half way of planning it. My brother was like naaa sike we're not having a wedding we're breaking up instead. ) to me i mean i hope tht they actually you know last forever but it's like idrk because of what he did, because you don't ask somebody to marry you & then back out of ut like it didn't really mean anything you know. Also his wife & i were kinda friends before they even got together but like i said they'll prbably be the next ones to have a baby & i'm happy really i am but it's just i wanted to be the 1st one to get married & have kids but i guess tht it just doesn't happen tht way🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ & i'm gonna be the only one out of all 3 of us without a baby lol. I mean there's 3 of my other brothers but my baby brother is 17 so tht's probably not gonna happen for a while & the 2nd oldest has a girlfriend but i don't really wanna keep up with them because they like to party/drink & then they're both pot heads(they haven't been togethet very long) & at christmas he was talking about how she might be pregnant & then our dad was talking about it & pointed to the ones tht are having a baby & said well i think it's nive if she is pregnant because then you'll have their baby & then your , but  he cutted him off & said tht he didn't even want kids & idrk why people don't want kids but tht's just my opinion but he went on to say if she was pregnant.. it's not my fault because i used a condom like boy it is your fault because just vecause you used a condom, tht doesn't mean tht she won't get pregnant. Condom's only work like 97/98 % of the time so yeah. But obvi i didn't say tht but like in my opinion if he doesn't want kids then he should'nt have sex! Ok tht rant over lol but then there's the other brother, he has a girlfriend too & then the 1st time we meant her our dad asked her if she was pregnant & they laughed n said no. Because he was playing a joke you know & he told her to go along with it. They haven't been together tht long either & idk🤷‍♀️ tbh i feel like they'll all trying to copy off of each other🤷‍♀️ i mean i could be wrong vut tht's just how i feel. Sorry tht this comment was really long lol but yeah

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I really wanted a vaginal birth but needed a c section. I went into labor before my scheduled c section and started having a panic attack before the surgery 😂 it was scary af. I think it would’ve been a lot less scary to me if I was able to have the vaginal delivery I wanted.

If you gave birth is it scary as some people portray it to be?

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