My dumb ass friend

This is going to be a long one but I have to get it off my chest because I won’t say it to anyone else except my own husband. I have a friend who I have supported and been there for since day one, we had our second kid literally weeks apart from each other and i fell pregnant with our 3rd a year later, planned yes because we were financially and physically ready so for some reason it lit a fire in we will call her Rebecca. Well Rebecca got jealous and she wanted another but her husband did not, he said they weren’t ready financially and he didn’t know if he wanted anymore so to me if you are a team you make decisions today of course so I thought. Well weeks later she complained about her iud and how much it hurt blah blah blah, I had an iud I get the cramps and bleeding and weight gain but I still did it because I knew I wasn’t ready for another baby at that time nor were we financially capable. Anyways she took it upon herself to remove it and she started tracking her ovulation. I told her if her husband doesn’t want to have a baby she should get on a reliable birth control seeing that condoms don’t always work anymore. Well she goes to tell me she won’t be getting on any birth control and it irritated me I get it her life but her husband didn’t want it, she was trying to trap him with another. Well I start to get distant I don’t agree with what she’s doing and then a few days later she tells me her husband won’t touch her, she thinks he is cheating because he works 40-60 hours a week to support her and their kids, she doesn’t have a job nor does she have the initiative to get one she wants to stay home and constantly smoke pot inside while yes her kids are there. The spending habits they have aren’t the best in the first place so it could be fixed obviously but a few days ago she sent me text saying she was pregnant, she said he husband wasn’t happy and that she wasn’t happy either yet SHE , HERSELF PLANNED FOR THIS BABY. So I asked her and she still isn’t getting a job . She is acting so fake as if she didn’t say to me SHE WANTED TO BE PREGNANT WITH ME. So since she didn’t get her way she made it happen. I’m sorry but forcing a man to have a baby with you husband or not is horrible to me and I’m so mad and disappointed in her. I don’t understand where in her head she thought it was okay to do that when he didn’t want another both until they are better off. So now she is being unfair, ahe is brining a baby into this world that her husband didn’t want , that they can’t afford while he is working his ass off and acting as if she didn’t do it on purpose. She keeps telling me “ we only had sex 3 times this month” I’m like so what it only takes one time but they were “careful “ which I don’t believe whatsoever. I just am angry for what she did and it’s her life she will figure it out but I don’t understand why she couldn’t have waited, why she HAD to get pregnant the same time as me ( keep in mind I only have 3 months left ) it’s just irritating.