Rant and over it post

Hello everyone.!

I am not sure how to respond or react to this anymore. I swear if it’s not one thing, it’s another with husbands mother and sister.

First of all, him and his mother have a very special bond, and I love my mother in law. The sweetest, and silliest women ever; however, when my husband and my sister in law fight, she does not help the situation at all. She always picks his daughters side JUST so she can have peace with her and at home (she still lives with my in laws, since she cannot hold a job and cannot pay or keep herself afloat.)

She recently made some bad decision, and wanted to just “vent” to my husband. My husband is obviously the older brother, so he tries to give advice and basically call her out on her bs. She doesn’t like it, and everytime goes off and cries to my mother in law, which results to my husband and his mom to fight. And all my mother in law says is to basically just support her regardless of the actions my sister in law makes. Which is not okay, and may husband will not do. (Per his decision)

After my husband and his mother fought, he wanted to do something nice, so he gave her out account information to our Disney+ account so she could watch some shows we thought it would be interesting to her (from animal planet) since they are stuck at home, and all of the sudden we find out my mother in law, without asking, gave our information to my sister in law without even asking us. And all she said was that she didn’t think anything about it. 🤦🏻‍♀️

My sister in law is constantly watching using our account now, and it’s not just the fact that’s shes watching innocent Disney things, BUT the fact that they thought it was okay to go ahead and pass it on without asking.

Am I wrong for feeling so annoyed, and frustrated.? I hate seeing my husband be upset at his mom for his sisters fault, and it does put this negative aura in our house. I just I don’t know. It’s beyond frustrating, and I do not saying anything to my husband becauSe i don’t want us to fight.