CIO alternatives

I'm interested in hearing from any moms who are NOT doing cry it out with their LOs. Are you having success? What routines/methods are you using?

My little guy goes down great at night but naps are another thing...unless he's being held he won't nap more than 10 minutes. My husband is pushing hard for CIO and I'm just not comfortable with it. Not judging any moms who do it, and I've already been told by many that it worked for them. I just don't think it's right for me or my LO.

So what else has worked for you?