So I’ve been with my GF for almost 5 years. (Lesbian relationship) of course like any other relationship we started off all giggly and head over heels for each other. The first 2 1/2 years of our relationship was long distance. (We met in our home state and then I moved for a while and came back) when I would visit we would have sex every night I was here. When we were long distance we would have phone sex almost every time we spoke. We met at 14 and 16 and got together at 15 and 17. I digress. We been living together for almost 2 years and our sex drive has definitely lowered. We have gone almost 2 months with out having sex before effortlessly and now it seems like when we do have sex it’s akward and short lived. Sometimes it’s even hard for me to orgasm from her head as I feel like she has slacked off. She always asks am I still attracted to her and I say yes because I am but I realize it’s mostly when she gets dressed and looks GOOD like very daddyish *shes a stud* Sometimes I get disgusted at her sex drive even in the back of my head will be hoping she doesn’t want to have sex and I don’t know why. Many times I often wonder what it would be like to have sex eith someone else. I also should mention that we have had some infidelity in the past. She cheated on me in the past first and I cheated back in revenge because I knew it would hurt and I wanted to show her I’m not to be messed with. Long story short we overcame it and haven’t had any issue since and I’m 100% sure we’re past it considering we grew up and talk about it and laugh about it a lot. I’m just confused, like at I attracted to her still? And how can my sex drive be so low at 20? Feel free to say whatevs, help a girl out.