Little backstory: nobody likes my stepdad. My mom is quite wealthy, and after my dad died, my step dad very quickly swooped in and started talking to my grieving mother . We are all pretty certain he’s in the marriage for her money, but thats a story for another day.

Anyway, today I was at my mom’s house eating dinner with her and my step dad. She says to us, “So, I was looking at my living will yesterday, and I noticed that I had written that if I were sick or something happened to me, I did not want any drastic life saving measures like a ventilator. However, when I wrote that I was not expecting something like the Coronavirus to happen, so if I do get the virus and end up not doing well I just wanted to let you two know to disregard the will because I DO want life saving measures in this situation.”

I tell her ok. My stepfather responds, “Your will says no life saving measures, so I’m not going to agree to give you life saving measures. We’ll do what the will says.”

My mom gets kinda upset and is like “No, this is why I’m telling you two to disregard the will. I am telling both of you that I DO want life saving measures. I wasn’t expecting something like this to happen when I’m still young and have a grandbaby on the way.” and my step dad just kept arguing with her about how he’s going to do what her will says!! Completely ignoring the fact that she said DO NOT do what her will says. I’m honestly feeling very uncomfortable and creeped out by the whole thing.