Drying up

Hey ladies, I’m in the process of drying my milk up/weaning. My 13 month old has always nursed to sleep for naps and all throughout the night, so I have come to a point that I have to stop because I’m so exhausted.. I know it’s hard for us both.. but what are some tips to help her go to sleep without nursing.. I’ve tried rocking her, giving her regular milk in a bottle before sleep, letting her cio ( not a fan of that personally) trying pacis, a lovey, nothing is helping she fights me so bad. I just need ideas.. please no judgment it’s hArd enough weaning her. She was up and down all last night due to her wanting to nurse.