I SUCK at being on top!?

Question

So I've been with my bf for two years and I RARELY get on top... Usually it's because whenever I do it's extremely loud and I have to stop, but I lowkey use that as an excuse not to ride him.

Don't get me wrong, the sex in our relationship is great. I'll do anything else and my bf is practically a porn star. I just wish I was better at riding him and I feel like I have no stamina. My legs feel like they're about to fall off if I ride him for more than 2 minutes 😩 any advice?!?

Answer

This is my exact problem.  I can't ride him for very long. Or I slow way down due to the burning of my legs. Lol. I just wish I could do the work too. I feel like he always does all the work...although! He is AMAZING! 😊😘

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Instead of using my legs when I'm on top, I lean down like I'm laying on his chest and use my hips and butt to ride him. It's basically like you're twerking on him. It uses up way less energy and I love it because my breasts (which are very large) aren't going to be hitting me in the face lol. And it's a plus for him because he gets to hear you in his ear.

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I feel you girl 😭 I recently started building my fitness up by going for runs etc but I think it's something a lot of girls struggle with. Definitely talk to him about it though, I told my bf I was really self conscious about it and he was super surprised because he says it's the best feeling position for him even when I go slow! Just talk it out and I'm sure it'll be fine. Good luck lovely! xx

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Change your legs positioning every now and then to give your legs a short break I go from like 
Grinding him (so knees on the bed)
The squatting down (feet on the bed)
And switch it up with some bouncing on my knees and that helps.
What really helps also is if u have a bed head something to grab onto to help support your weight also helps ALOT

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Reverse cowgirl is better. It's more comfortable for the girl.

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You know what they said, practice makes perfect lol. Seriously though I'm sure he would love it and I'm sure he doesn't think you suck.

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It does get tiring being on top after a while but it drives my bf crazy when I am. When I get tired my bf kinda realizes it and he takes control by holding me close and doing all the work. Feels super good. But that's something that I'd recommend, instead of being upright, lay on him and he'll do the rest 😜

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I love doing it reversed...it feels better

I SUCK at being on top!?

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