I didn’t need lube for my first so I didn’t use and I fell pregnant easily. I had less cm with my second and need lube so I got some. I took us 6 months with #2. If you need lube then I recommend. A little goes a long way and it can be really messy. I felt like it was counterproductive if I used too much or used it when I didn’t need it as there was a big mess😳.

Used it with both my children 1 born 1 time using it 2 born 2 try using it