So today after I had my first ob appointment (which didnt go well due to rude people) that's in another post.... I decided to tell my grandparents that I was pregnant now mind you while I have cousins who have kids this would be my grandmother's first blood great grandchild so instead of her finding out through someone else I took it apon myself to tell her thinking she would put her opinions about sex out of wedlock to the side for at least a few mins and celebrated the fact that she had a great grandchild on the way .....sadly I was wrong I tell her I show her the ultrasound and while I'm excited she had a disgusting look on her face the whole time and the first words out of her mouth are so when yall getting married 🤦🏼‍♀️ with everything going on I cant have the wedding I want because everyone I want there cant be there but that's a rant for a another day ......anyway she goes congratulations I guess and my grandpa goes yea me too!!!!😤😤 all I wanted is a congratulations we are happy for you but no they would rather make me feel like a piece of shit all because of their religious views (for the record my grandparents are far from the perfect Christian they do things they shouldn't everyday but not my place to judge)anyway I have come to the decision that they will not have no part in my baby's life because I will not allow them to sit and judge my child their whole life like they have done me ....does this make me a bad person? This time they have truly hurt my feelings and I will not allow it anymore