Do you get along with your SO family?

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Why? And do you and your SO have problems because of it? 
Ive been married to my husband 11 years now and well.... I cant stand my in laws 😅
My mother in law is great. Although bless her heart she cant keep a secret 😂 but my bil and 2 sil, I cant anymore. Is it bad to feel like I rather just not deal with them anymore? My husband agrees that they are just too much. But i also dont want to take him away from his family. 🤷‍♀️

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So my MIL was crazy obsessed when she found out I was pregnant. She literally wanted to give my daughter her very 1st feeding. Thank god I didn’t allow her to.
Then she started doing things that were not ok. Like letting baby sleep in belly when I kept asking her not to. Or just randomly giving her a bath without asking. Even taking her out of the house to her daughters while I was at work & my SO was napping with baby. I came home & flipped! She didn’t even leave a note.
I could go on & on buuuut I think you get the pic!

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I don’t have a direct problem with my soon to be mother in law. I just don’t like the way she does certain things... but I honestly can’t stand his brother and sister. They’re extremely toxic and just immature. For a while I bit my tongue, but his sister disrespected me and a few of my friends at our baby shower and I lost it. She threatened to beat me up... and ever since him and I agreed not to associate with her & that our son won’t be around her. I didn’t even have to tell him thats what I wanted thankfully. He came to me saying he didn’t want anything to do with her until she grows up.

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My MIL I’m close with I talk to her more than her son but she just lies a lot so I just say what I think to her and take what she says lightly. 
My FIL when he’s drunk he try’s to get very funny with me because he can’t take the fact I’ll answer him back and say what I think/feel. He also lies a lot. 
My SIL she lies way to much but I do get on with her. 
My other SIL a drug addict so I tend to keep away from her we all do were not planning on getting robbed. 
His mom dad and sister lie a lot not about anything serious but about stupid shit so i don’t really listen to them. But besides all that I do get along with them really well and  they would do anything for our kids so I can’t really moan. 
His 2 nans and grandad I get along with really well and his uncles and aunties apart from one auntie she’s just a bitch 😂
My grandparents passed away his one nan and grandad treat me like I’m there own and I’m really close to them. But his one grandad passed Away last year.

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My in laws are fine with me when I’m kissing their ass. The moment I want something my way they’re moody and start fights with me and my husband

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My in-laws are super nice and sweet and I like them, and they like me a lot. But I have no interests of tastes in common with them 😅 so I just get kinda bored when we visit with them, but otherwise no complaints!

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I don’t see them often but we get along

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I just don’t deal with his sister. He is really good about being sure she gets to see the baby every other month or so, and I just do my own thing while they are there. I only see her at thanksgiving, and there are enough other people around that I don’t really have to interact that much. Nothing she does is unacceptable, she’s just loud and crass and I don’t want to hear it 🤷🏼‍♀️

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I'm close with all my SO's family and love his mother as my own!

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I love his family, probably more than my own. They are hilarious and I just like hanging out with them. Sometimes they'll be hanging out and my boyfriend is at work, so I'll go hang out with them without him ,😂

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We live in a different country than my husband's family and I understand most of his native language but can't speak it myself. He hasn't spoken to his parents for 10+ years because they have a lot of psychological issues but he speaks to his brother daily and his grandparents once a month. I get along with his brother well, his grandparents don't speak English and I've only seen them 3 times in our 15 year relationship so it's difficult to tell but they seem very supportive of us and have been since day one. It's a difficult situation but we make the best of it.

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