How to you know when your baby needs to drop the second nap. A lot of what I read says after a year. But we’re struggling with naps. She goes to bed and sleeps 12 hours at night, but when it comes to naps it’s little cats naps. Maybe 20 mins and that’s if she’s in my arms. I can’t put her in her crib at all or she’s immediately awake and screaming. Some background I do nurse still and nurse her to sleep. But it works for us for right now and at night we have no issues with her eating, falling asleep and moving her to her crib she will wake momentarily and fall back asleep. I’m at a loss about what to do for naps.