Can't ever reach orgasm/come

My boyfriend can cum about 3 minutes into sex if he wanted to, he doesn't but he could. Same when I give him a blowjob, he is really easy to get off. But what ever he does to me I just can't reach orgasm. We have tried everything, sex, oral, sex toys, finger, rubbing, anal. But nothing seems to feel great, like it feels good but no where near enough to reach orgasm and come. Last night he was using sex toys, fingering and rubbing me for at least half an hour and I just couldn't orgasm. I just want something to feel amazing and to actually come because I never have. What is wrong with me?!