Hard to find men that don't have social media. EDIT

So I've been single about a year now. I've reevaluated a lot about myself and what I want in a relationship.

I don't have IG, Snapchat, Facebook, Twitter, none of it but glow really. I'm 33.

I decided to try a few dating apps since I can't get out to meet people.

Almost every account has someone's IG or Snapchat accounts on it lol. I didn't actually realize until now how huge these outlets are.

Does everyone just sit around taking photos for "likes" now a days?

It's proven very difficult to find man who isn't into all this. Someone similar to me.

I suppose it's my age, but I honestly didn't realize how many people are on all these platforms now.

EDIT****

This apparently came off shitty 😬 I legitimately didn't mean for that. I'm not saying it's an issue to have social media in general. I've just seen so many profiles that start with someone's IG tag. I'm simply saying I just didn't realize how prevalent it is now a days. I haven't been in the dating feild for 10 years lol I'm rusty.

I have no issues with someone having social media. None. I even still have my old Myspace account so I don't lose photos. My only worry is it seems most people on these dating sites are consumed by it. It's the first thing they bring up in chat "go look at my IG" lol. I honestly don't ever know how to respond to that.

I truly didn't mean to sound like a dick. I'm just super out of the loop apparently lol

Sorry if I offended anyone. I really didn't explain myself well. I apologise for that.

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My ex was so involved with his phone that I was always ignored. It got to the point of me just giving up on trying to talk to him. I just don't want to go through that again. It's heartbreaking when you love someone and that person doesn't hear you because they are so in their phone. I tried for 10 years with him. Once we had a child and he did the same to him, I left.

I guess with everything I've seen on these dating apps, I'm just scared.

Again, I apologise if I offended anyone.