How do you tell your husband you want to do marriage counseling? I’ve suggested this a few times.. every time his retort is “I know I’m the reason why we fight, I don’t need a professional to tell me that.” or “I don’t want to talk to someone, why can’t we just work it out?”

A little back story... Been TTC since October 2018 with one miscarriage in Dec 2018.. haven’t been “us” since that day. We have both struggled independently and have somewhat worked through it together.. every argument leads back to the baby. So I think we both have issues from that.

I know we won’t ever be “us” again, but I cannot continue to live in a relationship where I feel I’m not heard or am never being able to express myself.