Am I a gold digger ?

Before marriage my husband was on and off with his job. So I paid for most of the things. Now he’s working and I’m out of a job bc of Covid19 idk when the office will open back up. He offered to pay my car insurance. I reminded him and he called me a gold digger. I have $ saved & I can pay it. It was just nice to hear that he would be willing to do so bc he’s been using my car bc he’s out of a car right now. I married him knowing his financial situation & it didn’t bother me bc i love this guy & I knows there will be better days. I’m extremely hurt by his remarks, that I sort of hate him for it. And I just want to get my things and leave or get his stuff and make him leave. Maybe I’m over exaggerating but that hurt so much.