Nursery Safety?

There are so many useful things I see in your photos and WANT to put in the nursery, but of course always assume the worst. I want to be able to leave my kid in there for a few minutes when he is a toddler and not worry about him or broken items. Also hoping to add another baby soon afterwards and they will share a room, so the baby stuff is there to stay.

1. If I have a rocking chair, will his fingers or toes get squished underneath?

2. If I have a standing lamp or table lamp, will he pull it down?

3. If I have a nice ceiling light fixture, will he throw toys at it?

4. If I hang floor length curtains, will he hang on them or try to pull them down?

5. If I have open diaper table shelving, will he play with all the ointments and diapers?

6. People who have plants... are you worried your kid will eat the dirt etc.?

I just feel like a lot of the nurseries pics I see are for brand new babies and not built to last for toddlers. FTM... thanks for any answers!