Hi girls, i’m gonna be a bit crude, but i’m trying to get some answers or rough answers to a situation that i’m going through with my boyfriend ( i’m currently quarantined with him )!

There isn’t a possible way either of us have an STD, we have both only slept with 2 people. and the first person both of us ever slept with, we was also their first, if you get what i mean :).

Whenever ( not all the time ) me and my boyfriend have sex, after he finishes and it’s all done, he seems to get an irritated head of the penis. we looked it up on google ( stupidly ) and we came to the conclusion that it was something called Balantis, which is the irritation of the head of the penis which causes red spots on the head, which is what he gets, but this doesn’t happen all the time. We noticed it doesn’t happen when he washes on the day we have sex. we DONT use a condom because i’m on the pill. i recommended to him today maybe to try out using a condom because it might be the fact we are not using one that irritates him or the fact that he hasn’t showered the day we have sex maybe?

we are both quite worried but trying not to worry too much, he tried to contact a sexual healthy clinic today but no where seems to be open to visit or open for a sensible phone call, we got told to ring 111, but didn’t end up getting through to anyone, was all about corona virus. just wanted to see what you guys thought! thanks so much! xx