My marriage is failing and we are stuck in a rut. I’m at a loss and I think I’ll starting seeing a therapist. We have been together 6 years and married 3 have a One year old and another on the way. Things haven’t really ever been easy, well of course in the beginning but we bicker and argue bump heads and obviously nothing has changed because we continue to fight. I’m so done so so so done. I absolutely refuse to raise my kids in a toxic environment like I did and neither my husband and I have had a good model of what a good marriage should look like. He wants me to make a list of things that should be worked on and changed. I’m just so fed up at this point I feel like no matter what I do or say he’s still going to treat me the way he does, yells, raises voice, talks down to me, calls me names. I fucking hate it. He also says he hates the way I talk to him too. It’s just a vicious fucking cycle that needs some serious help. I’m just here to see what has worked for you when you hit rock bottom in your marriage?