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30 year old man living at home with his parents, doesn’t really help out with bills or groceries. He works and goes to school but he’s in debt so his parents help him out with money sometimes.. 
I read your comments and heres some more details:
-he’s in community college, he has changed his Major a couple of times, but this time he has stuck to it and is almost done 
-his debt is from buying a motorcycle then buying a brand new one a couple months later and credit card debt
-he currently doesn’t have school debt because he was in the military but this is his last year that he won’t be having to pay.. something like that

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I would not . But I also have kids and stuff so someone I’m with kinda needs to have their shit together . But that’s just me .

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Some ppl are lucky like that. To have it easy because of their parents. Can’t hate on it but I wouldn’t date someone like that.

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I clicked maybe.
My boyfriend was a little like this. Has some debt from buying shit, which to me is crazy, lived with his mom and sister before meeting me, and overall just wasn’t that driven.
But he’s like the best guy I’ve ever met. He listens and cares and wants to be the best man he can be for me and my daughter. He’s also gotten his shit together since seeing he can’t continue in his old ways and create a family. 
I think it really depends why he’s like that and what kind of person he is

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I answered the poll after reading the first line. No girl, just NO!

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Honestly no. I’m past that point in my life and want someone who has a steady job, a career, a house, and a car. They don’t have to be rich, but I want maturity and stability

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I would not because I’m 30 & I don’t got time for that bs anymore

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When my husband and I started dating, he was 29 and I was 25. We both had jobs and lived with grandparents, Didn’t pay rent but bought our own food, and moved in together 9 months later and have now been together for almost 5 years and are married with a son. There’s nothing wrong with living with family if you aren’t a bum about it.

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Depends on his parents situation and how much privacy they give him. 
I wouldn’t want to be thrown straight in at a family like that if i went over. I also don’t like the fact he doesn’t help them out tbh. Why does he keep changing his major too? Whats that about? I prefer to be with someone who knows where they want to be heading in the future. This guy seems quite indecisive.

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Nothing wrong with staying with his parents while he’s completing his education. The motorcycles and credit card debt are red flags to me. I would not be with this person.

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Personally no, he doesn't seem like a bad guy just doesn't seem like he makes the smartest decisions financially and for someone that's 30 it seems like he should've had plenty of time to figure that out. Maybe I just sound like a jerk but I just personally couldn't put up with that because I wouldn't trust him to make smart decisions with our future finances

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