Do you ask your spouse before making major changes with your appearance?

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Tattoos, dying hair a completely different color, or cutting off a lot etc things like that?

Accepted Answer

I get his opinion, but I don’t ask for permission.

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I might ask for an opinion, but I will never ask for permission.

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I ask him for his opinion, but not his permission. And I do take his opinion into account, it is a deciding factor but not THE deciding factor.

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I do not ask. I talk to them about it because I like to process out loud and because the tattoos I want are like 300-500 bucks and that is a big financial chunk of money to spend without talking to your spouse about it

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I say “Hey what if I did———“
And he will say “Whatever makes you happy”
Regardless of what it may be hahaah

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I don’t ask him, I tell him.

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I let him know what I plan to do. If he has strong feelings about it I’ll listen but ultimately it’s my decision. Same goes for him, he’ll let me know and if I really don’t like it l, I’ll say something but neither one of us will accept the other saying no you can’t do that.

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I never once asked my ex for permission to make any type of change to my body. I’d generally text him and say “I’m gonna do xyz”

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Nah. I’ve been wanting to shave the whole side of my head for a while now so I can have a dreadhawk. Ive told my bf I want to do this but I would never ask unless I was seeing if he thinks I’d look good with it lol. Just waiting until I can lose weight so my face would be more flattering for it ☺️

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I don’t ask, but I do let him know, most of the time

Do you ask your spouse before making major changes with your appearance?

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