What should i do.

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My boyfriend of seven years told me again for the second time in five months that he needs to figure out how he feels and what he wants, i hate the fact that he is so unsure. Should i cut off communication and let him figure that out?

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I personally wouldn’t waste my time on someone who is wishy washy about a 7 year relationship.

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By year 7 I feel like the person should know.

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Yes.

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7 years and doesn’t know what he wants or how he feels. You sound like an option to him in my opinion and i wouldn’t waste anymore time.

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I'd choose to dump him. If he's over 23, he has no excuse to not know what he wants. He's had more than enough time to figure it out.

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So he’s done this before. Sounds like he’s a fuk boy that recognizes he’s got a good woman but at this time he wants to go off and do whatever he wants without the constraints of a relationship, then come back to you. Then you’re the bad guy if you refuse wait for him, because what kinda person wouldn’t want to encourage improvement in their mate. 
I’d tell him “I love you and I’ve been there for you for 7 years and it hurts me that you still have to figure out what you want, but I don’t want to be with someone who is unsure so go. While you’re doing that, I’ll be working on myself and exploring my options”.  And do just that. Don’t spend your time worrying and wondering about him. Hang with your friends, date other guys, and try new things. Don’t let yourself fall into a funk. You might even meet a man who knows you’re a treasure he refuses to risk losing; one who knows he wants YOU only.

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Yes.

What should i do.

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