I’ve been thinking about breaking up with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for two years but for the past month we’ve been fighting over the littlest things that turn into giant fights. We’ve already broke up a couple times so we both have acknowledged it, but we end up getting back together because we “love each other”. I’m constantly paranoid around him and I can’t find it inside of me to trust him? Idk if it’s past trauma from my side but I just can’t find a way around it. We’ve talked about this and all he ever says is that he needs trust but idk how to give it, and if we should even be in a relationship if I don’t trust him. I can’t help but think that he’s got eyes for other girls, which leads me to think I’m just not a relationship person. His solution to every problem is to just “trust him”, and at this point I think I’m incapable of trust. I find myself checking in on my ex every once in a while which is weird considering I didn’t even have feelings for him! It just makes me think that he’s actually doing the same with the girls he DID care about. We both agreed that we’ve just fell out of it, that if we give it some time we’ll get back to normal because we both do still love each other. But we can’t go a single day without attacking each little thing another says, i don’t know if we’re just too far gone that it’s not fixable. He’s been my friend even before we were dating. I just need a way to distance myself enough to stop trying to force it to work, because we’re both constantly unhappy. Sometimes I can’t even stand to be in the room with him, like a sort of dislike?? I know he doesn’t deserve to be stuck in something so toxic but I don’t know how to tell him this while still remaining friends. I think I need help !!