Communication

Hi girls! I need help.

So I just found out last week that I'm expecting our 6th child. It was an accident and we were not very thrilled at first but I am trying to be. ❤ Husband texted me this morning saying he loves us all and the new baby too but we haven't gotten along very well since we found out because 1. I'm hormonal and overly sensitive and 2. He is stressed to the max because we live off his one income. We can handle another one financially it's just that we weren't planning on having anymore. (For those of you that want to chime in and say we should have been fixed or more careful, I took a plan B and it failed.)

Anyway, so my problem is my husband got offered a higher paying position/promotion at work and there are females in that department. Don't get me wrong I am super happy for him and proud of him but due to some things that have happened in the recent past I'm having a little bit of insecurities about the females.

I'm just worried with the extra stress from another baby he may do something stupid spontaneously. I want to talk to him about it but the second I tell him how I feel he is going to assume I want him to quit and drop back down etc. Which is 100% not the case I just am feeling sensitive since I found out about the pregnancy and I feel like I need a little bit of reassurance. How would I bring this up without sounding like I'm unhappy? 😔

Also for those of you that are going to ask how we have 6 kids and no communication... Good question idfk either. Lol