I don’t want kids but my boyfriend does

Katie

We were about to watch a movie but then he started talking about kids.

We’ve kinda talked about it before, and I’m pretty set on not having any biologically. My family has major mental illness problems and I just don’t want to go through with the physical part of having kids. It’s just never been appealing to me. I’ve told him that I’m 22 and want to wait a few years or more to have them if I decide to. He’s almost 25 and said he doesn’t want to wait till he’s in his 30s.

I understand that, but he was literally getting mad and said we would break up in the future if I decided I didn’t want them..

I’ve always pictured myself being the cool aunt that would bring my nephews and nieces on vacations and trips to the mall lol.

I’m open to talking about it, but I told him at the moment I do not want them.

Now I’m taking a bath with a glass of wine because I needed a little space

Any advice on this?