Labor Dilemma! Advice!

So, my fiancé doesn't want my mom or anyone else in the labor and delivery room while I give birth. He just want to cherish and share the moment of having our first child together alone. I completely understand where he's coming from. My mother on the other hand is very upset that he don't want her in the labor and delivery room. She was there for the births of all of my sisters kids and my oldest child. I'm 21 and my fiance is 39. He has two older kids. He's not being mean to my mom he just want to have our time and privacy. I don't know what to do. My fiance is in Ohio and he won't be here until 21st, I'm suppose to have the baby on the 27th but my OB says I will have her the week of the 16th. My mom has said she hope I have her before he gets here so she can be in the delivery room, that comment made me upset because I really want him there for her birth. I'm torn between them two and my fiancé gets really upset when nothing goes his way and make everyone miserable because of it!!