My boyfriend and I are financially f***cked

UPDATED!...........-UPDATE #2 at bottom

So my boyfriend is working mostly full time (he works for amazon... and I got let go from a job a month and a half ago due to covid-19. I’m late in my car payment again and they want to repo it...it’s our only car for him to get to work...they want the money by this weekend and I’m freaking out..it’s putting a lot of strain on our relationship especially because my grandpa bailed us out last time for $3100 and told us not to be late again but we just moved and had to put down a $3200 deposit down with our stimulus and his tax money. We are barley getting by but idk what to do... also my grandpa is dying and his nurse said he won’t make it another week and then my family wants me to go to Virginia to have the funeral and It hurts but I’m still looking for a job and if I go to the funeral it’s gonna be rough because there’s going to be like 1,000+ people there...I’m looking for a job but if I go I may miss on an opportunity but..I love my grandpa....has anyone else been in this situation???? 😔

UPDATE: my grandfather unfortunately passed away a few hours ago at 7:05 pm.... I made dinner...my mom called me and told me the news so I stopped eating and it’s been hard...so I’m sorry if I am very late responding. Even though I knew it was coming, it didn’t make it any easier..

So yesterday I was emailing my bank going back and forth because my account was restricted from not paying my car payments so I couldn’t make a payment due to not being able to sign into my account. Well after weeks of this it finally let me sign in yesterday and I saw that my balance was $1800+....I didn’t know what the hell was going on but I thought something was wrong so I called my boyfriend and he said it looks like it was unemployment. So I went on and looked and everything and found out it really was unemployment I have been getting it for three weeks and I haven’t been able to know because of the restriction on my account so I am mediately paid everything I owed on my car that was past due plus a month so now I’m a month ahead I have almost paid off my credit card in line of credit, and I will be helping my boyfriend with rent!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

As well as going to my grandfathers memorial that is now said to be held in July on his birthday 18th💜❤️💜❤️❤️💜💜

UPDATE #2!

My dad messaged me this and my heart filled up.... as it’s my fathers dad I know he is saddened but he has taken it upon him to get this for me and a few closer family members... the boxing glove represents him as being and MMA coach and his favorite thing in the entire world and all the love for us ❤️❤️

Also some of his ashes will be in the necklace 💜