Last damn straw! UPDATE

I live in a small apartment complex, and as far as neighbors go, most of mine are pretty cool.

Except for the ones in the apartment attached to mine.

They smoke in the apartment (lease says no smoking in units), they keep a dog they constantly scream at and neglect, they slam cabinets and doors at all hours while screaming at each other. She has called the landlord to complain about other neighbors for parking "in her way", she had her daughter (and her 3 kids) drive 3 hours to stay with her and her other daughter (in a 2 bedroom apartment) when the governor passed the stay at home order. Her daughter then proceeded to park in my spot, or so close to my car I could not get in it. (The daughter has her own home). When I first met her she started sharing far too personal information with me, then proceeded to try to bum money and cigarettes off of my husband. Her daughter tells me every time she thinks she hears my husband and I having sex (she's nearly 30 and acts like she's 14).

While I was outside today, one of my neighbors I get along with very well, approached me and told me she felt she needed to tell me something. My nextdoor neighbor had told her she heard my husband "railing" me at 3am, complete with sound effects and motions.

1. We just found out I'm pregnant, we haven't had sex since the night we conceived.

2. Even before I got pregnant, we were asleep by 10. I haven't been up until 3am in 5 years.

I don't know what to do.. the smell of the smoke and the noise is driving me crazy and making me sick. I've already tried to talk to her in the past. I'm no snitch, but I'm not seeing any other option at this point.

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So I texted my landlord about the smoking in the apartment. I feel dirty. We were raised not to snitch...

Landlord said they are allowed to smoke in their apartment and she cannot think of a way to resolve this issue.