Incompatible

I'm beginning to feel me and my bf are not compatible. He isn't able to give me the support I need when I need advice. The most he does is apologize and give like a sentence or two trying to help but I feel I need more than that especially because when I help him or other people I put my all into it. He claims that he is trying his best and when I'm not impressed with what he has to say he gets anxiety. I told him I'm not going to ask him for advice anymore and was going to ask others instead and he didn't like that but that's how I feel. He claims he knows he's slow and doesn't understand things but I need more than that. I need someone who knows what I need and does it. Also it pisses me off when the calls me and barely puts in effort to create conversation. It's like he relies on me to start it and I'm tired of it. does anyone else know how I feel?