Would you stay with the perfect man for you if you weren’t exactly sexually compatible??

So I feel like i’ve met the perfect guy, except for the sex. He’s just “okay” at sex. We’ve been dating for six months now and it really hasn’t gotten much better...I feel like I got cat fished (lol) because the first time we ever had sex it was amazing!! He went down on me, different positions, made sure I came...Now it’s all about penetration and he comes in like 10 minutes.

I’ve talked to him about doing longer foreplay, but it’s like the same shit every time. He always fingers me while we make out for literally five minutes before trying to have sex. I told him I need longer foreplay because he has a big dick and it hits my cervix if im not ‘ready’ and that hurts. sometimes if he sticks it in too early it’ll hurt me due to me not being wet enough.

Not only that, during sex he always says “how do you want it” and i’m like dude!! I’ve told him many many many MANY times what to do or not to ask me and just do it because he ruins my orgasm (on the off chance i get one). I have literally explained what I would like or how to make me come and it just seems like moot at this point.

I have told him things I would like to try or do, gotten us toys from the sex shop and it’s like he always reverts back to the same old boring shit. He admitted he’s not really into going down on me so I leave it alone and I honestly don’t know if i’m a pervert or like what because sexually i fed unsatisfied. If I don’t suck his dick or let him finger me for ten minutes like we’re some damn teenagers then I’m dry and the sex hurts!

I just feel sad because he is the PERFECT man in every other way. He is so supportive, romantic, funny, truly takes care of me (obv not in the bedroom lol), he’s an amazing cook, has a great job, great friends and I love him and my family loves him. I just feel so conflicted and quite frankly horny/frustrated!!!

Should I just buy a vibrator and get the fuck over it or actually consider leaving this relationship?