Am I still a virgin?

Hey girls, so I just read a Christian blog post that said if you have had oral sex you are no longer a virgin. I’ve had oral sex but not the other kind can someone please explain if this is true? I thought sex was meant to be a man into the woman?

Virginity is really important to me because I’ve recently been properly saved as a Christian. So when I see stuff like this it makes me super anxious as I’ve always wanted to wait until marriage but if I’m not a virgin it feels like no Christian man will ever love me 😞.