Birthday blues / boyfriend disappointment

On mothers day I decided not to celebrate as I haven’t delivered my baby yet and my birthday is 3 days after . Birthdays are a big thing for me but they’ve never been for my boyfriend. Every year I’ve had a birthday with him it’s been pretty mediocre ( haven’t told him that ) . I honestly am a girl that likes to be surprised and wined and dined and this year I just got to the point where I told him to let me plan my birthday and he could just execute it . He said no and that he has it handled ... needless to say we haven’t done anything and it doesn’t look like he has anything in store . He’s blaming corona virus and saying there’s nothing open but that’s not an excuse

Sorry if I sound bratty but I’m just fed up , on my birthday and Christmas in the last few years he’s just given me money it’s just like he doesn’t give an effort and all and to him as long as he buys dinner and has a cake it’s all good .

Side note : I told him I didn’t want him working on my birthday ( he’s a videographer ) and look who has to work today because he didn’t complete his work .

I just wanna know what to do because at this point im thinking is this something I could deal with long term or am I being dramatic ?