My husband and I have been planning a long distance (appx 1100 miles) move after the new year. Neither of our families know yet but I have a feeling that we are going to get a lot of shit for picking our family up and moving 5 states away. You have been wanting to do this for sometime now but the time never seemed right and we didn’t have the money to do so. Well now that our second child will be here in 12 weeks or less and the area we are currently in isn’t the best to have a family. We feel now is the best time to go. We have a plan in place and have been saving everything we have. I feel bad for moving away and taking 2 grandkids away from the families but we want what’s best for our girls.