I want to be a younger mom but don’t want to get married either

Low key kinda jealous of the girls who were in a low place and end up getting pregnant and the pregnancy changed their whole life. I wasted my early 20s being in a toxic relationship and all I got from that was hypothyroid and gaining 80 pounds and hatred for toxic people. My mom was 35 when she had me and it sucked honestly having an older mom and being an only child. Since I was little I always wanted to a somewhat younger mom or at least have kids before I’m 30. Would love to have 3. Problem is I took a year to be single and then Rona happened so it’s gonna be 2 years in September. Never had the interest in getting married and dating just feels like it would take too long. Should I plan to do the sperm bank route or wait as I might find someone who I’m deeply in love with and we can have kids together