Advice about intercourse

This is probably gonna be a TMI.

This is my second pregnancy, with the first baby, my sex drive was the highest it has ever been in my life. After I had my first, my sex drive was and still is nonexistent.

My husband and I occasionally have sex. In the past couple months I’ve been avoiding it as much as possible. Simply because the last time we had sex, I had severely strong contractions to the point I was in tears. I’m actually terrified if we have sex again before I’m AT LEAST 39 weeks if not 40 weeks I’ll go into labor.

Of course though husband has been practically begging me to have sex, so I do alternatives to this, which I hate 😂

What would you do in this situation? Yes, I know I should talk to my OB about it I plan to but until then.