Am i being bridezilla?

So, me and my bf of 9 years are tieing the knot this weekend. We are keeping it small like his brotherand his gf as witness and my bff as witness. We are gonna tell family after the fact.

This was a known fact that it was a secret wedding.

My soon to be bil's gf told her manager which then called me to congratulate me.

I get its not family amd w.e but i havemt even told ppl at worl lile my fav co workers dont even know and im pissed!!

Do i have a right to be pissed?