MIL issues! UPDATE!

After two years, two years of my mother in law being bossy, telling our business to everyone, over stepping, crossing the line, defying our rules for our newborn and butting in where she doesn’t belong I finally, finally said something. And it was not pretty. First off, it’s been the toughest week of our entire relationship. We had a problem arise but we’re working on us and trying to fix it. My baby girl is almost 7 weeks and is going through a growth spurt and absolutely restless. I’m tired, worn out and on edge. My husband and I had sex and he had a hicky on his neck. And she for real went out and told a bunch of people about it! Wtf does that!

UPDATE!

So I know a lot of you think I came off to harsh but my husband has been telling her for years to stop gossiping about us and to stay out of our personal business. She never does and doesn’t seem to care that he asked her not to. She’s been told multiple times to stop and never does. Sometimes I’ve even heard her say that she can talk about whatever she wants to whoever she wants. Including our relationship. I’ve just finally had enough of it. I’m tired of being walked on. I understood the possible outcomes when I messaged her. But she did end up apologizing and was very pleasant at a family function last night. Since all this she has not over stepped once. So I’m glad I said what I said because she has been a marital strain for years and It needed to happen. She refused to listen to my husband (who most of the time did not say it very nicely at all) so I felt as if I needed to step in.