He proposed over two years ago, now says it’s way too expensive to get married.

So first of all, my fiancé is 43. I am 33. He has done very well in life and has always been good with his money, as have I! He works hard for the life we have and I appreciate that very much so, however, we’ve been planning a wedding in November, that we concluded would cost around $4200, give or take a few hundred. Now we have CASH. We have savings of over 5Xs this amount, so it bothered me that he said we couldn’t afford to get married. We have very little debt, and both of our vehicles are paid off so, I’m furious he would say that. THEN, he says, “why do you want to get married?” We’ve talked about this for years, we both knew what we were getting into in the very beginning and agreed it was what we both wanted. He proposed on his own and I graciously accepted! I want to talk to him but right now I am hurt and I don’t want my feelings to get the best of me. I don’t understand why he’s saying these things now. We’re both still working, living as we normally do...I’m very scared right now.

Shady, this is the first time I’ve posted here, lol, and all of this this happened last night, so it definitely wasn’t me. I guess this is more common than I thought. That’s crazy! I wonder if the post is still here somewhere and how would i find it??