How log did you wait for sex?

How long did you wait to have sex when your first started dating your S/O? I’m dating someone new and I’m trying to get a timeline of when it will be “appropriate” to have sex. I want to do things differently this time because I really like this guy and could see myself having a future with him. So far, we have not talked about sex at all because the dating part is fairly new and we arent officially in a relationship just yet. Still taking time to get to know each other more. I would like to wait until we are official with each other and we both get tested to make sure we are clean before taking the next step. In the past, there have been times when I slept with a guy very early on and I don’t want to do that this time. Anyways, if you decide to read this, please answer my question above. Thank you 🥰