3 weeks pp and I am so beyond overwhelmed

My 4 year old is out of control. She’s back talking, yelling, not listening, sometimes I worry she’s even acting kinda violent which scares me around the baby.

My 3 week old.. is a 3 week old.

My husband who literally didn’t have sex with me the ENTIRE pregnancy because he was “worried” and it was “weird”, won’t keep his hands off me and constantly tells me how horny he is now. Like idgaf bro.

The baby won’t latch so I’m constantly hooked up to the pump and I’m not even producing enough so I feel like I’m missing out on time with my family and older child for no reason because my baby is getting several formula bottles anyway.

I’m just mentally over it all. I hate this stupid virus. I could sure use some family help or even just get out of the house for a bit!

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