What would you do if you were me?

So around March I got my first ever Pap smear. In my state, unless you are pregnant or have health concerns, you can’t get one till 21. I waited 4 months as I was super busy with school, so I waited till spring break to get it.

Anyway they found something and prematurely diagnosed me with HPV, this last week I was in for what I thought would be the second test but was really a consultation and was informed they never actually tested me for it, just found something that may be it, and if it is, its extremely low risk. No warts or anything.

Of course I told my boyfriend this. We have been together for 6 months and around 2 months we stopped using protection, I’m on the pill and both of us were clean, or so I thought.

Now I’m not sure if he doesn’t know what HPV is, or confused it with HIV, but he absolutely flipped out on me, and blamed me.

I tried to calmly explain it all, how both my parents have it, how most people have it, and how it’s mostly just mild or goes away on it’s own. Both of us are also vaccinated.

He just decided to drop the subject and we havnt talked since.

Ever since he’s been extremely distant and his personality is different. He never flirts or calls and always says he’s “too busy”

We also never sext anymore.

I tried giving him space to process it, but idk what to do anymore. I truthfully feel very gross now. I’m clean with everything else but that.

How would you react if you were him? What should I do?

*my actual retest is in June btw, that’s the earliest I could get in