I need advice. My grandma is dying - she's been fighting cancer for the last 9 months, and was hospitalized for pneumonia a few days ago. Today she went home and was set up with hospice care. Many of my family members have traveled to see her or are planning on going this weekend. We've said we'll come in the morning - me, my husband, and our 4 month old. Everyone is wearing masks, they're opening doors and windows as much as possible, lots of Clorox wipes, only disposable dishes, etc. Basically all the safety measures they could think of. We would hang out in the yard as much as possible, but I would want to go in the house sometimes to be able to spend time with my grandma, and I'd struggle if I couldn't bring baby in too. But I'm starting to doubt our decision to go. Is it safe? Both for us and my family? My grandma adores our baby and I really want her to be able to see her again before she passes away - but then I'm also fearful of the increased exposure involved with being around so many people. Many of them are essential workers who still go to work. I'm not sure what to do. Any tips? What would you do? Thank you 💕

Edited to add: they live 3 hours away, so part of this decision also involves length of time. We could just go during the day and make it a short visit, but then end up spending 6+ hours in the car in one day, or we could spend the night at my mom's house. If we stay at my mom's, it would only be her and my sister staying there, and it's a pretty large house where everyone would basically have their own corner of the house. Before this, my mom was fully self-isolating and didn't go into public spaces. Her husband did the grocery shopping with a mask and gloves and they were overall extremely careful because she is immunocompromised. My sister has seen her girlfriend and has gone grocery shopping in a mask, but that's it. Ugh, there are so many factors in this!