So my husband ended up getting the bulldog.... Im the one who has 2 take care of him 90% of the time because I am a stay-at-home mother of two and he works full-time which I knew this would be the case that's why I was so concerned on all my questions being answered. Fortunately for us he is good with the kids and he is good with our cat but he is not house trained and doesn't know any commands which is kind of a problem I find myself picking up urine and dog droppings all throughout the day even after I have taken him outside. I have to mop and sweep my whole house three to four times a day now. Im exhausted!!! And the shedding omg! Call I am not bonding with this dog it's like taking care of another child or a old person the dog has no personality whatsoever, you can't walk him for more than 10 minutes at a time he doesn't even like going outside because it's too hot. we've had gotten him a whole bunch of toys and ropes and stuff and he will not play with them at all. It just doesn't feel like we even have a dog it just feels like I have another person I have to pick up after. :( this is why i wanted a more athletic dog who we coule take on walks and take camping with us etc. Idk how to tell my husband.