Do you let social media interfere w/ your relationship ?

So me and my boyfriend have been arguing for a few days now over something I think is so small and could be so easily resolved.

He doesn’t want me post me on his social media. At all, he doesn’t make it known that he is in a relationship. Hell take pictures with me, save them but never post it.

Here’s why I feel some type of way about it, about a year ago he left his phone in the car and I did go through it. He was telling some ex of his that he still loved her and yadayada. Yes it was addressed and resolved but I still haven’t let it go.

He keeps his phone glue to him. Not only but he always has his phone ringer on and it’s always going off none stop through the entire day, he refuses to answer phone calls with me or even pull out his phone out his pocket when the message chim Chings

I glanced at his phone earlier when my daughter was trying to play with him and he had 5 notifications from Snapchat and 14 on messager.

When I attempt to talk to him about it, he tells me that I’m overreacting just over social media, but that’s not it.. how do I explain myself? Like I know I’m not the only one who sees the issue but he clearly doesn’t.

It’s not that I want to snoop around in his stuff but sometimes I want to be appreciated and shown off. I don’t want to be a secret, I don’t want the world to only think as him as single because that’s how he presents himself. I just don’t see what’s wrong about one single post over even a picture of us.

It’s not a big deal it just, I don’t see the problem.