Break up?

Question

What does it mean when someone felt like they were going through the motions?
What does it mean when they were scared because you were graduating and they had a year left?
What does it mean when they are not 100% into the conversations anymore?
I need clarity from my girls on here. I’m going through a rough time. I need some positivity.
I’m 22 and about to start my life.

Answer

It means they are worried that they are doing the wrong thing. Worried that now you’ve finished studying and will be working you are going to meet new people and move on without them. They have been distancing and preparing themselves for the relationship to end, dragging it out til they felt ready, which is unfair on you. 
Like you said your life is about to start, its awful for this to be happening but think of it like being a butterfly emerging from the cocoon, you have new beginnings in your life all round you now.

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It means that you were delaying the inevitable and by staying together and that it is basically over for them. Walk away. They’re trying to break it to you nicely to soften the blow, they may have already moved on, just giving you a heads up.

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Sooo almost a decade ago when I was 21 by bf at the time said this to me. “I feel like we’re just going through the motions”. He did break up with me not long after this. He meant he didn’t want to be in the relationship anymore and wasn’t in love with me. We were together about 2 years. I took it super rough because I felt like we were best friends... but eventually we both moved on!

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Sounds like emotionally they had fears of the future possibilities and this was disconnecting them from you (hence the conversations’ quality). You have your whole life ahead of you and it only works if the fears are set aside and some faith and love and connection is placed into the relationship of it’s something you both want to continue. Our insecurities/fears can disconnect us from others. Can’t let those emotions control and run in a relationship or it wreaks havoc. Hope all goes well.

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