What does this mean?

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If a man cheats on you with the same woman he left to be with you (I knew nothing about her until we were together for about 2 months) but constantly keeps going back to her and has cheated on you with her for half your relationship, what does this mean? He even sneaks and have conversation with her after I’ve told him not to. He claims he just wants to be “friends” but that’s not possible when y’all slept around during our relationship. I already know what it means if he keeps running back but I want to see if others agree with me because he claims it’s absolutely no feelings or love there for her but yet can’t give a reason why he keeps sneaking around with her.. And I’m pregnant with both of our first child. at this point I’m ready to leave and just let him be with her.

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it means he’s trash. don’t look into it any more than that. dump him.

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He’s cheated on you with her and continues to do so?
He’s just enjoying the best of both worlds by being with both of you and you’re letting it happen with no consequences so of course he’s not going to stop. 
Time to leave

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... if he’s been cheating on you for (at least) half of your relationship, what the hell are you still doing with him? Just leave. It doesn’t matter WHY he’s doing it, it just matters that he IS doing it. Staying with him despite his cheating is telling him it’s okay and that you don’t care, so why should he stop? 🤷🏻‍♀️ You’re basically giving him a free pass to have his cake and eat it, too.

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I don’t mean he loves or wants to be with her.... He’s just got the best of both worlds, he can fuck her your stay with him then he can fuck you having your cake and eating it I would leave girl good luck 💜

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All it means is he's a cheating douche! I mean does it matter who he cheats with? She's probably just easy pickings and he knows how to manipulate her. Plus she probably gets a thrill out of it since he left her for you. Bottom line is that you cannot control him so no matter how much you try to police the situation, if he wants to cheat, he will.

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Girl, this baby won’t charge anything but continue the behavior, she won’t be pregnant but you will & don’t let him do that to you when
You’re in a vulnerable state(pregnancy). He obviously doesn’t love you becaise he would have a lot more respect then to sneak around with the girl he cheated with, & she obviously doesn’t give a fuck he did it to her with you so why not cheat on you with her ? These women are ruthless and your man couldn’t care less as long as he gets his nut. Trust me when I say now that you’re pregnant he’ll be going to her instead of you. Love yourself and don’t let this clown tip your crown. Leave & not give a fuck and promise he’ll be questioning what to do to get you back. You’re obviously bonded together forever now that you’re pregnant ! Use these 9 months to try to get him to be a better man for you and the baby .If he doesn’t change within that time he doesn’t deserve to be in your life and will not be a good example on the child he obviously Girl or boy. The girl will just learn it’s allowed to happen to her & the boy will just learn to go around & do the same. Don’t do this to yourself. Raise your child the right way  , show them what it  is to be a man or woman & how to love themselves & another person ! This mans sneaking around won’t be showing them any self respect ! They’ll only treat their future relationships the way they saw their “dad” treat you! A man with respect for the women going thru changes due to a baby will love & respect you enough to stay around & cater to you during these times !

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Run.

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He knows you will put up with it and keep doing it. There may even be more than 1. He's not going to stop. Stop allowing him to treat you like this and find someone who won't cheat. They are out there.

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You’re just letting him be with both of you? Sounds like a very open relationship to me. You’re letting him make the rules.

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It means he will continue to cheat on you if you don’t leave him, wether there’s love or not if they’re sleeping together it’s not acceptable.

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