My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and have survived long distance and 2 short deployments. He is very sweet and does tell me he loves me every day. He was away training a week before our anniversary and he took me out for a nice dinner ambit he didn’t get me a card. And I know that seems trivial but I shouldn’t have to remind him to get a card or ask him to buy me flowers every once in a while. His father is an absolute nut, he is very manipulative and condescending. His father thinks he is a master of everything in fact is “teaching” himself the engineering behind building an addition on his house and has enlisted my boyfriends help. His father honestly just infuriates me, there is always something going on conveniently when we have plans. I don’t know it’s hard now since he is staying with his parents until he has to decide on a new contract in April so. I love him and I can picture myself spending my life with him but I despise his father. And I am scared I am settling since am staying with him and We don’t have fights often we communicate well it’s just little things. And I think I let my frustration about his dad get the best of me. I don’t know even what I am asking for but I just need some advice?