Am I too needy?

So my boyfriend and I had planned our 1 year a couple months ago, and I was super excited about it and have been talking about it a lot these past couple weeks. But he didn’t take off work for this Saturday, and now our entire plan is ruined. He keeps making up excuses to why he can’t take it off, and when I tried calling him he hung up (but he never answers my calls anyway even tho we have been dating this long). I don’t feel like he loves me, he says that he does but then he started talking to one of our friends about me, and then today at school my friend and my boyfriend started ganging up on me and telling me that I he doesn’t need to answer any of my calls and all that. I have been holding back my tears all day and idk if I’m even a good girlfriend anymore. My boyfriend has been picking on me a lot recently and telling me to shut the f up and stuff (even tho it’s a joke.. but he’s getting rlly mad at me now). Idk what I’m doing wrong. Pls help.

Ps. I don’t constantly bug my bf just call him him once or twice every 3 weeks or so.