I need online dating advice

Br

So I recently started dating online I haven’t dated in years because I was married then took time to heal so I’m 24 and it’s hard being in the hookup culture .. I’ve met some nice guys none in person though because they’re usually out of my city the part I don’t like is when they want to meet they offer me to stay at their homes Or think I’ll let them stay at mine, not to get a room... is that normal ? What should I do when it comes to theses situations so far I’ve been avoiding men like this but they all do it I’m like shit maybe this is the new norm and I’m just lost still