12 years apart

I had my son when I was about 19years old. Found out I was pregnant at 5 and a half months due to pain. Went to the doctor after a few days of cramps and pain only to find out I was pregnant and my baby was trying to come the exact day I found out. Me thinking it was a joke I went home and laughed it off. Next day I was omitted to the hospital on my back with tube everywhere trying to hold the baby. He came a month later (so born at 6 and a half months) I was told I couldn't have kids after him (which was a healthy baby boy) 11 years later (while on birth control) I'm pregnant again. I got on birth control only because my boyfriend asked me too. His way of preventing a life made one, and then the day we found out I was pregnant he left me. Still to this day it doesn't bother me even tho it's hard, but my son is my blessing and ppl seem to pick at me not only because I waited so long to have a child but because I'm a single and pregnant.